“Missional” Strictly by the Company I Keep?

9 07 2009

My church’s Summer Bible Study has been on the topic of “being missional”.  It has been an intriguing (and convicting) study of what it means to be a missional person.  The lesson this week will focus on the “social ministries” aspects of the missional lifestyle.  We will see what the Bible has to say about God being a God of social justice and of charity.  We will learn (yet again) that Christ’s mindset was always toward helping the underprivileged.

povertyBut even as we read convicting passages from God’s Word, many in my church will be thinking to themselves, “Our church needs to be about feeding hungry people and helping the homeless in our community…our church needs to continue clothing them and providing other help for them…this is something our church needs to do.” And those are good thoughts, but they are indicative of the institutional mindset which is keeping many of us from ever reaching our true Christian potential as individuals.

You see, there is more to the missional mindset than just becoming a missional institution.  The missional lifestyle is a lifestyle for each of us as individual Christians, whether or not our particular church is ever seen by its community as being missional.  The attitude at my own church provides a great example.  Thirty years ago, my church was literally blazing trails in the area of social ministries.  We owned and operated a restaurant run almost entirely by volunteers, the profits from which went to feed people in our near-by soup kitchen.  We provided leadership in some of our community’s homeless shelters and clothes closets.  We had a strong presence in several of our city’s project housing complexes.  We provided Christmas meals to between 400 and 500 impoverished families each year.  In this area of social ministries, our institution was a well-run machine.

So, over the last 30 years, each of us as church members could pat ourselves on the back because our institution was doing great things in this area and we each had the good judgment to be a member there.  Mind you, the vast majority of us were doing next to nothing in these ministries (other than supporting them financially), but when confronted by conviction about caring for the underprivileged, we could each conveniently check this item off…instead of “I gave at the office” we could say, “I gave at church.”

But if Christianity really is to remain the revolution Jesus intended (instead of just the institution we tend to make it), then whether or not my church is seen as a “missional church” doesn’t define me one way or the other.  Only I can define me, through my own actions and through my own heart and mindset.  If I am seen as a person who genuinely cares about people less fortunate than I, then I am seen as “missional” in that respect.  If not, then I have work to do irrespective of whether or not my church offers me this opportunity through one of its ministries.

Isn’t it time for us to stop defining ourselves through our church membership and start defining ourselves through how we live each day of our lives?  Then, we can stop worrying about whether or not our church is a missional church.  Because when its people are missional, it will inevitably follow.

© Blake Coffee

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No Keeping Score with Forgiveness

7 07 2009

Tuesday Re-mix – This is a popular post from last year, updated and resubmitted for your consideration and comments.

As of the original writing of this post, if Michael Phelps were a nation unto himself, he would have ranked third in the number of gold medals won at that point in the Beijing Olympics. That’s impressive. Watching him and his 4 x 200 relay team members shatter a world record by almost 5 full seconds was impressive. Watching the Chinese gymnastics teams (both men and women) was also impressive. I do love the Olympic games.

One of the things I noticed about myself as I watched is how many new numbers I learned. Before last Summer’s Olympics in Beijing, I never knew what a world class split time was for 100 meters freestyle. Before then, I never knew how to calculate team averages in gymnastic rotations in the team competition. But I found my brain awash in these calculations night after night as I watched with anticipation. For a guy who went to law school so I wouldn’t have to learn any more math, I got wrapped up in the math of competition quickly…because the numbers are important in Olympic competition. It is how we remember athletes’ performances. It is how we keep score. And let’s be honest here, keeping score is important to us.

But in matters of grace and forgiveness, numbers are apparently not important to God. So I believe Peter was a bit befuddled by Jesus’ response to his question about forgiveness in Matthew 18. And I believe we are right there with Peter. Our chests swell with pride over how forgiving we have just been with a brother…for the [fill in the blank with your favorite number]-th time. We are proud because we are still keeping score. Keeping score is important to us. Not so much because we ever intend to do anything with it…that, after all, would be wrong. No, the score is important to me just so that I can feel good about myself. It’s a way of measuring my sacrifice, my worthiness, my self-perceived value to the kingdom of God. It’s not so much that I want to flaunt it (o.k., maybe I do want to flaunt it a little, but I won’t because that would appear vain), I just want to hold onto the number for my own private benefit.

And so, we are taken aback by Jesus’ response to Peter (and to us): “You’re not gonna want to try and keep count of this, because you’re gonna need to be doing this constantly, all day, every day, as often as it takes.” (My paraphrase). We are taught that we are to forgive as God forgives (Ephesians 4:32), and God isn’t keeping count. The only quantity that matters in questions about God’s grace is the quantity “enough”. God’s grace is enough. No matter the sin, no matter the person and no matter the circumstances, God’s grace covers it. Therefore, keeping count (i.e., keeping a track record) becomes unnecessary, in fact, distracting. It defeats the whole notion of forgiveness, which is to wipe away all debt so that nothing more is owed. It is starting from zero (again).

In matters of forgiveness, God isn’t keeping score and neither must we. In fact, if you’re keeping score, you probably haven’t forgiven. Keeping score is for Olympic athletes and gold medals…not for Christians and forgiveness.

© Blake Coffee

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The Principle of Focus

2 07 2009

I am in South Africa with a team of teacher/facilitators from our ministry, teaching “Five Principles of Unity” in churches there.  Look here for our schedule and how you can be praying for us.  Here is some of what we are teaching:

…fix your thoughts on Jesus, the apostle and high priest whom we confess. Hebrews 3:1

The Principle of Focus: My focus should be on Christ.

Picture a buzzard and a hummingbird flying side by side over a desert.  The buzzard looks down and sees nothing but dead carcasses.  The hummingbird looks down on the same desert floor and sees nothing but desert flowers.  Why is that?  It is because that is what they are each looking for.

If you come to your church’s gathered worship looking for problems in people, you will never be disappointed.  As long as there are people, there will be problems, because people are flawed.  It doesn’t take a Spiritual gift of discernment to find people’s flaws.

But if you come to your church’s gathered worship looking for Jesus, He will meet you there every time.  Bad preaching won’t prevent it.  Bad music won’t prevent it.  Bad people won’t prevent it.  If you are really looking for Jesus, you will find Him.

This is an especially important leadership principle, because as a leader, you do establish the focus of your congregation.  It doesn’t even matter whether you’re a good leader or a bad leader.  It is just the way we are as people.  We look where our leaders are looking.  Leaders establish focus.  That’s always been an interesting phenomenon to me.  No matter what kind of leader you are, no matter your style nor your effectiveness, people will tend to focus where you focus.

From the perspective of a church consultant, that means that I can spend a few hours visiting with a congregation and noting their apparent focus and immediately learn something about their leadership’s focus.

So, as you gather with your congregation this next time, where will your focus be?  To what (or to Whom) are you teaching them to look?  Remember, whether you are a professional minister or a lay leader, you establish the focus of your congregation.  Establish it well, my friends!

© Blake Coffee

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