Eye Contact with God

12 04 2012

“Come, let us discuss this,” 
says the LORD. 
“Though your sins are like scarlet, 
they will be as white as snow; 
though they are as red as crimson, 
they will be like wool.  Isaiah 1:18

“Cross-examination is the greatest legal engine ever invented for the discovery of truth.”  John Henry Wigmore

As an attorney in America, I am part of a legal system which assumes the adversarial system is the surest means to finding the truth.  That assumption contemplates two parties, face to face, exchanging arguments in such a way that the truth somehow wriggles out.  It does not have to be litigation–it can me arbitration or even mediation–but there is something about standing (or sitting) and looking someone in the eye which just lends itself to more truth and to less manipulation.  I have come to believe in that process, when done correctly, as one which works…most of the time.

Interestingly, litigants in our culture have often never taken this opportunity.  They just go and hire lawyers and file cases and it may be years before they actually sit down face to face and exchange contentions.  Most jurisdictions today actually require it (i.e., some form of mediation) before you can proceed to trial.  I think that is a good thing.

God requires it as well.  When we have gotten things horribly wrong and have rebelled against Him and continue to get deeper and deeper in trouble, what He waits for, LONGS for, is the conversation.  He waits for the moment when we will sit knee-to-knee with Him (so to speak), make eye contact with Him and Him with us, and talk with Him.  If you have parented teenagers, you know this feeling…when they are rebelling and refusing to listen, what you want more than anything else is for them to just talk to you.  This is what Isaiah called “reasoning together”.  It is a kind of “spiritual eye contact”, and it signals the beginning of reconciliation between us and God.

God’s charges against Judah spoken through the prophet Isaiah were serious.  During Isaiah’s time, the people were the worst kind of hypocrites.  They showed up for worship and went through all the motions, but the rest of their lives showed no signs of righteousness at all.  They prayed and they offered sacrifices, but their hearts were not toward God and their “religion” was shallow and empty.  They had all the surface religious conduct down, but their treatment of the poor and the downcast in their community was atrocious.  They were among the wealthiest people on the planet (though in pretty fast decline, both economically and morally), yet poverty and homelessness was rampant among them.

Does any of this sound eerily familiar to you?  Yikes!

I am one of those hypocrites.  My life may show flashes of Godliness, but how I care for the lowliest of brothers and the decisions I make about my own comfort, etc. throw me into that same ugly category as Judah in Isaiah’s day.  Surely there are parts of my life which do not honor the Lord.  And He waits…eagerly longing for me to “come and reason with Him”.

I know God expects that of me.  I also know He expects it of His people…all of us…in the same way He expected it of Judah.  That is the good news.  It is not too late!  We can still fix this mess.  It begins with you and with me.  It begins with our regular eye contact with God.  All the praise songs and all the lip-service prayers and all the offerings we bring mean nothing at all to Him without the eye contact.  That, it seems, is where grace is found.

© Blake Coffee
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God, Google, and Magic 8 Balls

20 03 2012

Tuesday Re-mix - 

But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere. James 3:17

Do you remember Magic 8 Balls?  I do…that awesome Mattel toy (wow, just the name Mattel conjures up so many exciting feelings for several generations of Americans…Barbie dolls, Hot Wheels, Matchbox cars, and all those games!) that would answer any question you have about anything!  Ask it any “yes” or “no” question and then shake it and, voilà, the answer would magically appear in the little window.  “It is decidedly so”, “signs point to yes”, “Don’t count on it”, “Ask again later”…it was all very simple, really.  We liked that about it.  We got to set the agenda, we got to ask the questions we wanted answered…and if we didn’t like the answer, we could just shake it and ask again!

We’ve grown up now and we no longer rely on Magic 8 Balls to answer all our pressing questions.  We realize, of course, how silly we were when we did that.  Now, we have something much more powerful, something much more completely accurate to answer all our questions.  Now we have the internet.  The process still works the same way, of course, because it is a process we like, one we get to control.  We simply log on and Google whatever our question is and, voilà, the answer magically appears on our screen.  We like getting wisdom that way.  It appeals to us.  We set the agenda, we ask the questions, and we get the answer.  We are powerful.

It is this notion of being in control and powerful, I think, that makes it so difficult for us to embrace the Bible (or a walk with Christ, for that matter).  Oh, it is a book filled with all the wisdom we could ever need, but we don’t particularly like the process for retrieving it.  We do not feel nearly as comfortable with receiving God’s wisdom, because we do not get to be in control of how it is imparted.  More often than not, we don’t even get to ask the questions.  Well, we can ask whatever questions we want, but they are probably not the right questions.  And since we tend to ask all the wrong questions, God’s wisdom tends to confound and frustrate us, because He doesn’t necessarily dole it out to us on our terms and in response to our silly questions.  Sure, we may have access to the highest intelligence in the universe, but we do not control how that wisdom is imparted.  That is bothersome.

We are like the rich young ruler (Luke 18) who comes to Jesus and asks, “What must I do to inherit eternal life?”  He asked a question about his life after his death.  But Jesus’ answer had an entirely different focus.  His answer, “Sell everything you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me” focused on the here and now, on this man’s life starting today.  The young man didn’t like that wisdom.  Neither do we.

It would be like asking the Magic 8 Ball a question and having it say, “You’re asking the wrong question…the question that really matters is…”.  Let’s be honest, if Magic 8 Balls said that, nobody would buy them.  And if our search engines did that, we would be looking for a new search engine…one that will play by our rules and answer the questions we want answered…because we are powerful.

But on a genuine faith walk with God, we do not get to set the agenda.  We rarely even get answers to the questions we are asking, at least not when we want them and not the kind of answers we want.  Rather, Jesus says, “Come follow me.”  And it is in the following that we begin to get answers to questions we didn’t even know to ask.  It is in the regular, daily dose of scripture that we begin to receive wisdom that matters.  It is in the regular time in prayer that our perspectives on this world and our family and our neighbors and all our silly questions begin to change.  And over time, before we even know it has happened, we have a profound understanding of things and we have a peace that surpasses all that understanding.  We have something infinitely better than an answer to all our little questions and infinitely better than our own terms and our own agendas.  We have God.  We are not powerful.  But He is…and we have Him.

© Blake Coffee
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Don’t Worry, Be Happy

12 01 2012

“Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life?” Matthew 6:25-27

I am not a worrier…at least I do not think I am. Oh, I do worry. Some. But I don’t think of myself that way. Still, maybe I am a worrier but just not very self-aware. Could that be possible? If so, then maybe I actually worry a great deal more than I think I do. In fact, maybe it is a huge problem for me but I am just not very connected to that reality. And maybe I worry so much (without realizing it) that I could actually have a heart attack or a stroke one day because of it. Maybe I am killing myself slowly every single day and don’t even realize it. It is possible, you know. I could die any day now.

:)  See how easy it is to worry?

I am not claiming any expertise as a worrier, but I am definitely no stranger to the notion. I have had a few stressful seasons in my life. I am actually entering a new one right now. Tomorrow, my ministry’s Board of Directors will consider approving the largest, most challenging budget in our ministry’s history. If they do approve it, it will also signal a scary shift for me. It will be a critical step toward becoming less and less financially dependent on my self-employment (as a lawyer) and more and more dependent upon this ministry to meet my family’s needs. Less dependent upon God meeting my needs the way He always has through my law practice, and more dependent upon God meeting those needs in entirely new and different ways. Scared? Worried? You bet!

In my experience–and this could just be me–it just does not help me much to know I should not be worrying. You do me no favors with your simple counsel, “Blake, don’t worry” or “Blake, stop worrying”. How, exactly do you do that? How do you just not worry? “Don’t worry, be happy” just does not work for me. No, in my experience, if I want to stop worrying, I have to treat it like a bad addiction and replace that behavior with another, more positive behavior. I suspect that may have been Paul’s experience as well. Look at his counsel to the Philippian church in chapter 4 of that letter: Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.  See? Paul would say that all the energy we are using to worry is energy we could be using for prayer.

That is the solution to the worry problem, isn’t it? We must replace worrying with praying.  That is the productive behavior.  That is the behavior which draws us closer to God and which slowly but surely helps us to see our world and our circumstances through His eyes.  Come on, you know it’s true…you always wonder where you will find the time to have the kind of prayer life you know you should have.  Just take the “worry” time and use it for prayer.  Think about all the hours each week that will buy you!

As for me, I have prayed more for this ministry in the past few months than ever before.  And through those prayers, God has given me a peace.  It is not an unrealistic, naive kind of peace.  It is a deep, grounded peace that God is still in control…still on His throne, that He still loves me and that He still has much to do through this ministry.  Prayer has been a good thing for me in this!  Oh there is much work to be done, and it will be hard in some cases.  It will not all be happy times.  But there will be joy, and peace, and we will see God do great and mighty things.  Not because we worried, but because we prayed.

So I am changing my tune.  ”Don’t Worry, Be Happy”?  Not so much.  ”Don’t worry…PRAY!”  Now that is worth singing about!

© Blake Coffee
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