Eye Contact with God

12 04 2012

“Come, let us discuss this,” 
says the LORD. 
“Though your sins are like scarlet, 
they will be as white as snow; 
though they are as red as crimson, 
they will be like wool.  Isaiah 1:18

“Cross-examination is the greatest legal engine ever invented for the discovery of truth.”  John Henry Wigmore

As an attorney in America, I am part of a legal system which assumes the adversarial system is the surest means to finding the truth.  That assumption contemplates two parties, face to face, exchanging arguments in such a way that the truth somehow wriggles out.  It does not have to be litigation–it can me arbitration or even mediation–but there is something about standing (or sitting) and looking someone in the eye which just lends itself to more truth and to less manipulation.  I have come to believe in that process, when done correctly, as one which works…most of the time.

Interestingly, litigants in our culture have often never taken this opportunity.  They just go and hire lawyers and file cases and it may be years before they actually sit down face to face and exchange contentions.  Most jurisdictions today actually require it (i.e., some form of mediation) before you can proceed to trial.  I think that is a good thing.

God requires it as well.  When we have gotten things horribly wrong and have rebelled against Him and continue to get deeper and deeper in trouble, what He waits for, LONGS for, is the conversation.  He waits for the moment when we will sit knee-to-knee with Him (so to speak), make eye contact with Him and Him with us, and talk with Him.  If you have parented teenagers, you know this feeling…when they are rebelling and refusing to listen, what you want more than anything else is for them to just talk to you.  This is what Isaiah called “reasoning together”.  It is a kind of “spiritual eye contact”, and it signals the beginning of reconciliation between us and God.

God’s charges against Judah spoken through the prophet Isaiah were serious.  During Isaiah’s time, the people were the worst kind of hypocrites.  They showed up for worship and went through all the motions, but the rest of their lives showed no signs of righteousness at all.  They prayed and they offered sacrifices, but their hearts were not toward God and their “religion” was shallow and empty.  They had all the surface religious conduct down, but their treatment of the poor and the downcast in their community was atrocious.  They were among the wealthiest people on the planet (though in pretty fast decline, both economically and morally), yet poverty and homelessness was rampant among them.

Does any of this sound eerily familiar to you?  Yikes!

I am one of those hypocrites.  My life may show flashes of Godliness, but how I care for the lowliest of brothers and the decisions I make about my own comfort, etc. throw me into that same ugly category as Judah in Isaiah’s day.  Surely there are parts of my life which do not honor the Lord.  And He waits…eagerly longing for me to “come and reason with Him”.

I know God expects that of me.  I also know He expects it of His people…all of us…in the same way He expected it of Judah.  That is the good news.  It is not too late!  We can still fix this mess.  It begins with you and with me.  It begins with our regular eye contact with God.  All the praise songs and all the lip-service prayers and all the offerings we bring mean nothing at all to Him without the eye contact.  That, it seems, is where grace is found.

© Blake Coffee
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We Christians and Our Starbucks

27 03 2012

 Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.  And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice.  Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.  Ephesians 4:29-32

Companies in the Northwest U.S. have come out in favor of a recent same-sex marriage law in Washington state, citing business reasons such as keeping quality employees (who would presumably feel compelled to leave the state, and the company, in order to live somewhere where they could enjoy their same-sex marriage).  Those announcements would not ordinarily make national news, except for the names of some of those companies: Microsoft, Nike, and (alas) Starbucks.  Actually, not even Microsoft’s or Nike’s announcements got all that much attention, despite their HUGE place in the homes of Christians all over the world.  But Starbucks…well, now the Christian world is in an uproar, to say the least.  People are calling for a boycott.  Messing with our computers and our $200 tennis shoes is one thing, but now you are messing with our coffee!   One of the better organized opposition movements is from Washington D.C.’s National Organization for Marriage, which last week launched dumpstarbucks.com.

And now, the fight within the Christian world is once again fanned into flames with a renewed energy.

IN THIS CORNER: “How can you say you believe the Bible and then support gay marriage by purchasing Starbucks coffee?!”  And IN THIS CORNER: “How can you say you follow Christ and then refuse to associate (like He did) with those with whom you disagree?!”  And with those positions, both sides dangerously agree on one contention: “If you disagree with me on this, you must not really be Christian.”

Nice.

I am a peacemaker.  This sort of conflict is what I live for!  So I am boldly wading out into this one with some words of counsel to the Christians who simply cannot resist this fight.  If you and your Christian friend are really going to debate this issue, because she is boycotting Starbucks and you don’t want to…or because you are boycotting Starbucks and she doesn’t want to, you need to follow some rules.  You know these rules, because they come from the same Bible you will no-doubt be using to support your argument.  Permit me a few paraphrases of those “rules of engagement” for our purposes here:

1. Do not overestimate or overstate what is at risk.  Neither your salvation nor your friend’s are at stake here.  I’ve searched and searched the scripture on this…there is nothing in there about boycotting the secular world’s businesses in order to be saved…nor, for that matter, even as evidence of our salvation.  Moreover, your Christian friendship is likewise not at risk here, nor your worship relationship, nor your ability to love each other, minister together, or discuss scripture together.  Keep a “ceiling” on the discussion and do not let it escalate beyond its reasonable borders.  The Christ in you and the Christ in your friend are still the same…and still very much alive!

2.  You are on the same team.  The friend with whom you are arguing is not your enemy.  We in the church do have an enemy, and he loves it when we break unity, especially over stuff like this.  Figure out whose strategy you are going to play into here…and be careful.

3. Keep your words edifying.  Quit taking the other side’s position and then carrying it out to some ridiculous “logical conclusion” just to try to make them look foolish.  That doesn’t build them up.  Understand their position, yes, but don’t misinterpret it.  Quit trying to change their minds about their own position.  Just explain why you have made the decision you have made without tearing them down for their decision.  Ask yourself what is to be gained by using words of contempt and shaming them into agreeing with you…you may have won the debate, but at what cost?

4. Keep bitterness and anger out of this discussion.  That is sometimes easier said than done.  But all of us as Christ followers need an anger gauge that sounds an alarm when we feel it rising up in us.  And then we need to find some quick, honest, relatively painless way out of this discussion until we can re-enter it with coolness and love and gentleness.  How embarrassing will it be for you to stand before the Lord one day and have to admit that you destroyed a Christian friendship which HE ORDAINED FOR YOU over a disagreement about where you buy your coffee.  Ouch!

5.  Don’t use your life experiences to interpret scripture.  Rather, use scripture to interpret your life experiences.  Be honest.  If you have an idea in mind of what you want scripture to say before you even open it, then your “research” is already tainted.

I hope these reminders help.  They always help me.  Consider yourself adequately warned now.  So, go ahead…strap on the gloves and slug it out.  And may the best Christian win.  :)

© Blake Coffee
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Forgiveness in Our DNA

22 03 2012

Then God ordered me, “Start all over: Love your wife again, your wife who’s in bed with her latest boyfriend, your cheating wife.
Love her the way I, God, love the Israelite people,
even as they flirt and party with every god that takes their fancy.”  
Hosea 3:1 (The Message)

                                                              

Jesus straightened up and asked her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?”

“No one, sir,” she said.

“Then neither do I condemn you,” Jesus declared. “Go now and leave your life of sin.”  John 8:10-11

Hosea had a prostitute for a wife.  I cannot even begin to relate to Hosea’s pain.  I read Hosea and really do have to stretch my imagination to try to feel the pain, and even then, I am sure I cannot even get close.  It is, I think, the severest form of unfaithfulness.  That is probably why God chose it to illustrate His displeasure with His people.  Hosea’s illustration represents among the deepest of betrayals and pain we can know, and the reconciliation to which it points likewise represents the most significant we can begin to embrace.

Just as God’s wrath is just one shade of His deep, deep love for His people, His forgiveness is likewise one shade of that same love.  They are two sides of the same coin.  They are both His very nature.  But though He did not call His people to try to emulate His wrath, He absolutely does call us to forgive as He forgives.  In fact, He created an entire movement (one we call “the church”) designed specifically to reflect that remarkable forgiveness.  It is His very nature, and it is therefore in the very core purpose of His church.

And still, we, His church, read and grasp with great astonishment the story of Hosea and Gomer and the forgiving heart of a husband toward an unrepentant prostitute wife.  It shocks us.  It surprises us.  Its very idea eludes us, at least in any practical way.  Jesus demonstrated it as well, forgiving the adulteress woman in John 8.  Throughout all of scripture, we get story after story of God’s forgiving nature.  Even when He brings His wrath, it is for the purpose of reconciling His people back to Him.  It is Who He is.

This reminder encourages me greatly.  If it is the very nature of God to forgive, and it is the very nature of Jesus to demonstrate that same forgiveness, then that means that, somewhere in our DNA…in the deepest recesses of the church and its memory banks, there is forgiveness.  We can muster it.  We can reflect it.  We can demonstrate it in the same shocking fashion as Hosea, because it is in our blood.  Does that encourage you?

© Blake Coffee
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