Unity Through Diversity

9 11 2010

Tuesday Re-mix –

There is a public park in Luhans’k, Ukraine where my ministry has gone to work with churches in the past. The park is in a “forest”. It is a beautiful place. But there is something eerie about it. You can’t quite put your finger on it, but there is something about it which just doesn’t seem right. You feel like you are out in nature, but not really. Then you learn the story…the “park” is a man-made forest built by the Nazis. The trees are all lined up! Then it’s not eerie anymore…it’s just funny.

I had a long conversation with “Thomas”, a church leader whose church was blessed with a diversity of people. The topic of the conversation was worship styles, but the principle at issue was much larger than that. When confronted with the reality that a variety of preferred worship styles (I usually refer to them as “languages”) existed in his church, this leader sternly refused to use any other styles other than the one they currently used, the one they had been using for many decades. His premise was this: in our worship we must stay unified, with a common “language” or style, because the more homogenous we are, the stronger we are…diversity only weakens us. Hmmm. It flustered me a little, because it was an entirely new argument for me. I honestly never thought anyone could make an argument against diversity among God’s people. Frankly, pictures of a Nazi forest came to mind.

I have always seen our diversity as an incredible strength. It challenges us, to be sure. It is difficult at times, to be sure. But it stretches our understanding of God and of one another. It is that whole “you complete me” thing. I actually am energized being around people who are different from me, particularly when we are talking about Spiritual things.

I am no church historian (or any other kind of historian, for that matter), but I would be willing to bet there was a similar argument made when some in the Catholic church began to suggest that perhaps some of the mass could be conducted in the people’s native language rather than in Latin, since they could better understand it then. Surely there was an argument then that keeping the services in Latin was a “unifying” characteristic, one not to be lost.

I suppose “Thomas” also believes, then, that churches should be segregated into as many different cultural (and language) groups as possible, so that everyone can have the opportunity to worship with people with whom they have the most in common. That way, nobody has to deal with the hassle of being stretched to consider some facets of God other than those with which they are comfortable. Everybody can be lined up in nice clean rows, and it is much more “manageable” then. Nazi forest.

In reality, “Thomas’” vision for church is born out in churches all across the world every week. There are churches in every country where everyone looks the same, acts the same, and thinks the same. Indeed, there are some environments (spiritually abusive ones) where thinking differently isn’t even permitted, let alone encouraged. And many of these same churches seem to have very little conflict, because disagreement is either rare or is outright forbidden. They would call it “unity” and be proud of it. I would call it “uniformity” and be afraid of it.

You can read Paul’s letters to each of the New Testament churches from one to the next and it becomes very clear very quickly that diversity was actually a strength of the New Testament church. The early church was a confluence of cultures and languages and religious heritages. It was the Spirit of God which bound them all together in unity. It was definitely NOT that they were all alike in any other way at all. Why, then, do we work so hard today to stay all alike?

Unity among God’s people is all about our ability to see beyond the worldly exteriors and to find Christ in one another. When you and I are exactly alike and in agreement all the time, it makes it virtually impossible to know whether it is Christ I am finding in you, or just an amiable, comfortable version of myself. But in the midst of diversity, when I do not necessarily understand your culture or your exterior, but nonetheless I find qualities and characteristics in you which look and sound like my Savior, then we have found real unity. In the midst of diversity…indeed, perhaps because of diversity, we have unity.

So, I must disagree with “Thomas” and his vision for church. I don’t want the church he wants. I want one filled with different cultures and different looks and different preferences. I am not interested in uniformity. I am interested in unity, with all its difficulties.

© Blake Coffee

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Wineskins and Worship Wars

1 06 2010

Tuesday Re-mix – This is a popular post from last year, updated and resubmitted for your consideration and comments.

“Neither do men pour new wine into old wineskins. If they do, the skins will burst, the wine will run out and the wineskins will be ruined. No, they pour new wine into new wineskins, and both are preserved.” Matt. 9:17

old-wineskin“Worship style” definitely gets the prize for being the most troublesome issue dividing churches today.  I believe it is troublesome because it hits many of us at a pretty deep level.  We each have our preferred “language” for worship, and these worship wars have a way of calling into question the legitimacy of my “language”.  I’ve mentioned this in previous posts here and here and here, but our questioning each other’s worship style is a little reminiscent of the money-changers questioning the legitimacy of each person’s sacrifice.

In Jesus’ much-studied conversation with the Samaritan woman at the well (John chapter 4), he is asked a pointed question about the appropriate time and place to worship God. For those of us who are struggling even now with “worship style” issues, this woman’s question is a prime example of a “worship style” question.  Jesus’ response, that “a time is coming” when God’s restrictions on time, place and form would no longer be central to worship, seems to me to be a clear signal that an important change was about to happen. Jesus’ remarks in Matthew chapter 9 about “new wine” and “new wineskins” seem to signal the same thing: a profoundly new way of relating to God.

Isn’t that what Pentecost (Acts 2) represented? Wasn’t it the ushering in of an entirely new way of relating to God? Surely, Jesus’ teaching to the woman at the well that God is seeking “true worshipers” who worship in spirit and truth is a reference to the results of Pentecost: the indwelling of the Spirit of God within the worshiper himself. That changes the rules of worship, doesn’t it? Suddenly, all the restrictions God had placed on how man drew near to Him–restrictions of time, place and form–restrictions made necessary precisely because man could NOT worship in spirit–are no longer necessary. This “new wine” is more restrictive in terms of WHO can draw near to God, but it is amazingly liberating in terms of HOW we can draw near to Him. “Spirit and truth”. Those are the restrictions on worship today. Do you suppose that, if we all started using “Spirit and truth” as the only lens through which we see one another’s worship styles, we might learn some things about how we can draw near to God TOGETHER?

Just asking.

© Blake Coffee

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Languages of Worship (The Biblical Illustration)

24 11 2009

Tuesday Re-mix – This is a popular post from last year, updated and resubmitted for your consideration and comments.

The LORD appeared to Abram and said, “To your offspring I will give this land.” So he built an altar there to the LORD, who had appeared to him. Genesis 12:7

David, wearing a linen ephod, danced before the LORD with all his might… II Samuel 6:14

Then Mary took about a pint of pure nard, an expensive perfume; she poured it on Jesus’ feet and wiped his feet with her hair. And the house was filled with the fragrance of the perfume. John 12:3

I want to know Christ and the power of his resurrection and the fellowship of sharing in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death… Philippians 3:10

My first post on this topic (and by this title) was  here.  Think of it as an introduction.

If you have ever had to plan a corporate or “gathered” worship experience for a diverse group of people, you know how challenging it can be.  This person prefers hymns, that person prefers choruses.  This person loves  Power Point, that person hates it, and so on and so forth.  And it is those differences in preferences which have contributed to what we call the “worship wars” troubling so many of our churches today.

I believe those differences can be sorted out into two categories.  Some of them have to do with cultural upbringing.  In that respect, the preferences are learned languages which we have developed over time.  I grew up singing hymns so I have developed a love for them, a preference.  Others did not grow up with them and find them to be difficult to understand.  They prefer a more “user friendly” chorus.  This category of preferences is very akin to the Mac versus PC issue in the computer world.

But there is a second category of preferences that go beyond just cultural or learned responses.  Going back to the computer metaphor, there are some worship preferences which have more to do with our circuit board than with whatever application we happen to be running at the time.  They are about temperament or personality.  They have to do with how God created us.  If the first category of issues is essentially a “software” issue, this second category is more of a “hardware” issue…all the culturalization in the world will not change it, because it has to do with how we were hardwired from birth.

In his book, Sacred Pathways, Gary Thomas challenges us to consider how very different many of the “worshipers” in the Bible were from one another.  For example, consider four of them: Abraham, David, Mary of Bethany, and Paul.  If you were called upon to plan a worship experience that would engage all four of these worshipers, what would it look like?  Abraham was a traditionalist, always looking back at what was and remembering.  He approached God best by building altars.  David, on the other hand, was passionate and exuberant in his worship.  He celebrated being in God’s presence with singing and dancing.  Mary’s (of Bethany) pathway to worship was just sitting in Jesus’ presence, gazing adoringly at him, contemplating His love.  Paul was an intellectual.  If you want to engage him in worship, you better have your Bible opened and be challenging him with thought-provoking truths.  Each of these dear friends loved the Lord and was loved by God.  Each of them were wired completely differently in terms of the environment in which they preferred to approach the Lord.

Can we in the church today learn to give each other the leeway to be wired differently from one another?  Can we learn to embrace those differences and use them to make our worship experiences even richer?  Can we as leaders in the church learn to exert our influence so as to promote tolerance in our people for a variety of forms of worship?  I say yes, yes and yes.  I have faith in the church.

By the way, for more on this concept, you should check out Gary Thomas’ website and particularly his book, Sacred Pathways. Intriguing stuff.

© Blake Coffee

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