“Where’s the Power?”

30 06 2009

Tuesday Re-mix – This is a popular post from last year, updated and resubmitted for your consideration and comments.

Remember this commercial from Wendy’s?

Pretty brilliant advertising, really. I’m convinced it is what started the current trend by restaurants and burger joints to sell us embarrassingly HUGE portions of food. Remember back when you could actually finish a plate of food you ordered at a restaurant? So, Wendy’s pokes a little fun at burger joints for giving us smallish burgers and look what we’ve got now…massive amounts of beef everywhere. Score, Wendy’s.

Since it worked so well for Wendy’s, I’d like to propose a communications campaign for the church in America. It will be called the “Where’s the Power?” campaign. We’ll run adds of “man on the street” interviews asking people why they are so repelled by the church, to which each of them (in some fun, unique way) will respond, “Where’s the power?” And you know what? They’ll be right.

In Matthew 18, when Jesus described his “church” and how it would function and what it would be like (remember, none of the disciples had ever seen anything like “eklesia” before, so it required some vision-casting by Jesus), he brought his entire lesson to a climax when He described the supernatural power with which His church would be equipped:

“I tell you the truth, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven. Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven. For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them.” Matthew 18:18-20

Powerful stuff, right? Who wouldn’t want to be a part of that? I would like to find this church and join it. The problem, of course, is finding it. This is NOT the church in America. I’ve heard accounts from South America and from Africa and from South Korea that it IS the church in other places around the world, but I don’t think any of us can make a colorable argument that these words describe the church in America, with the possible exception of some small pockets of believers here and there.

What is clearly missing so often in the western church is an actual empowering of the Holy Spirit toward God-sized things that simply cannot be explained in human terms. That is the God of the Bible. When He moved, there was never any doubt about whether this was the accomplishment of man or of something much bigger than us. It was always clear.

I believe there is an entire lost and broken world looking for God. I do not believe, however, that we are really showing Him to them in many cases. We’re showing them how great WE are at singing and preaching and building facilities and being creative and relevant. But most of what the world can see can easily be explained in human terms; nothing really God-sized about it.

I believe that, when the church in America falls under this conviction: that there is truly NOTHING meaningful we can accomplish apart from the work of the Holy Spirit, that we don’t need bigger buildings or better programs or more relevant music unless we first get a healthy dose of the Holy Spirit and His power…I believe then we will find answers to so many of the questions we have been asking about cultural relevance and missional worldviews and doctrinal purity. I believe our answers to these (and other) burning questions will come much easier when we start asking the first and foremost question:

“Where’s the Power?” And how do we get it?

© Blake Coffee

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The Principle of Accountability

29 06 2009

I am in South Africa with a team of teacher/facilitators from our ministry, teaching “Five Principles of Unity” in churches there.  Look here for our schedule and how you can be praying for us.  Here is some of what we are teaching:

Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted. Galatians 6:1

The Principle of Accountability: I have responsibility for my brother’s relationship with God, and he has responsibility for mine.

Imagine a high school football player playing on a Friday night under the lights with all his friends and loved ones sitting in the stands watching.  He’s having the time of his life until BAM…he takes a vicious hit and has some trouble getting up.  The coach and trainer come out to help him and they get him over to the sidelines, where they sit him on the bench and begin to assess the damage.  Ol’ Doc Sullivan, his family doctor, is sitting in the stands and comes down to the sidelines to help.  The boys’ parents come down as well.  This small group of people who love him and take care of him most are all standing in a circle around him and all wince together as they cut off his shoulder pads, revealing a horribly separated shoulder.

This is where the weird part begins.  Everyone of them, parents, coaches, doctor and trainers, all know what needs to happen next.  This shoulder is going to have to be set, and it going to be excruciatingly painful.  Everyone looks at the parents.  “Don’t look at us…we’re just parents.  We have no idea how to do this.  Besides we can’t bear to see him in that much pain.”  The coaches say, “Well it’s certainly not our job.  We make him a football player, somebody else is responsible for this part.”  The trainer says, “I’m just a trainer, not a doctor.  I think the doctor should do it.”  The doctor says, “I don’t really have the kind of relationship with this boy that I think he will need for this.”  And nobody sets the shoulder, because they all have an excuse.

Crazy story, right?  It would never happen in real life.

But it happens every week in churches across America and around the world.  Someone gets horribly Spiritually out of sorts and needs someone to love them enough to do something about it, and everyone has an excuse.  “Leave it to the professionals.”  “I don’t want to jeopardize our friendship.”  “It’s judging, and I don’t want to judge.”  “He/She has a right to privacy, and it’s not my business.”  “I wouldn’t even know where to start.”  Etc., etc.

None of these excuses are the real reasons we don’t confront each other in the church.  The real reason is that we don’t love each other enough to confront each other.  I can see that you are making a series of decisions in your life that move you further away from God and from God’s people, I can see the Spiritual brokenness in your life, and I just do not love you enough to ask you about it.

Let’s not lie to ourselves.  That is the real reason we don’t practice Spiritual accountability with one another, or when we do, we do it in a way to push people away rather than pulling them into fellowship.  When you get right down to it, it is a love problem.

By the same token, when it is done right, when the Biblical model for Christian accountability is honored, it is likewise a result of love.  There is no other valid motive for doing it.

We either love each other enough to do it, or we do not.

© Blake Coffee

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The Principle of Perceptions

25 06 2009

I am in South Africa with a team of teacher/facilitators from our ministry, teaching “Five Principles of Unity” in churches there.  Look here for our schedule and how you can be praying for us.  Here is some of what we are teaching:

Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Romans 12:17-18

The Principle of Perceptions: I have responsibility for how others perceive me.

I consulted with a traditional, small town First Baptist Church who was in severe conflict.  There was a variety of issues, but the primary problem was broken relationships.  So we spent some time addressing those relationships.  One of the personalities involved was a young, dynamic high school teacher who had a fantastic presence with the teenagers.  He truly loved the Lord and brought teenagers to the Lord (and to the church) by the busloads.  Literally hundreds of them.  He was a bit eccentric, which is why the teenagers were so attracted to him.  He shaved his head, wore old blue jeans and a “Jesus Freak” tee-shirt to church, even on Sunday mornings.  His theology was solid, his teaching was wonderful, he loved his family (wife and three kids), and they loved him.  As I met with him, I remember thinking to myself, “I wish my own teenagers could meet this guy.”

But as wonderful as he was, the jeans and tee-shirt were a bit of a problem in the eyes of some of the older folks in the church.  Actually, as things got increasingly tense, it became a problem with quite a few of them.  But in his mind, that was their problem, not his.  He told me, “When I come to worship, God isn’t concerned with what’s on the outside, He’s concerned with my heart.”  True enough.  And you certainly couldn’t argue with the results of his ministry.  Obviously, God was using him powerfully in the lives of the youth.

But at the same time, his choices in attire were carving out an entire section of the congregation and saying “I don’t care what they think about me…I don’t want to be a Godly influence in their lives.”  Wasn’t this a major theme in Paul’s letter to the Roman church?  In chapter 12 and again in chapter 14, he dealt with this attitude among some of the gentile Christians toward some of the more traditional Jewish Christians.  Paul would say to them, “Let us stop passing judgment on one another…Instead, make up your mind not to put any stumbling block or obstacle in your brother’s way…if your brother is distressed because of what you eat, you are no longer acting in love.” Romans 14:13-15 (selections).  Likewise, I think Paul would say to this dear teacher, “If those older folks are small-minded and cannot see the bigger picture, so be it…it is who they are for now…do not ruin your testimony in their eyes just for sake of being right.”

At least that’s what I think Paul would say.  And it’s what I said.  And it is what the Principle of Perceptions is all about.  If I am to have influence in someone’s life, I really do have to care what he or she thinks about my choices.

And so, the principle of perceptions sets up a two-pronged test for the choices I make: (1) what does God think about my choices, and (2) what does my church think about my choices?  You don’t HAVE to ask yourself these questions.  Only if Godly leadership is something to which you aspire.

© Blake Coffee

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