Tuesday Re-mix – This is a popular post from last year, updated and resubmitted for your consideration and comments.
With all the recent news from the Sports world about Tiger Woods and the Chris Henry tragedy, and with church and political leaders continuing to behave badly in very public ways, “accountability” seems to be on the forefront of people’s minds. It seems we all believe that accountability, as a concept, is a good thing. All of us are for it, even would insist on it…as long as it applies to someone else. But let somebody suggest that perhaps we ourselves (i.e., you or I) might benefit from a little more accountability in our lives and suddenly it’s a nasty idea, ill-conceived, feels judgmental, and who are they to make such a suggestion anyway? I suppose it is just a matter of perspective.
In my line of work as a church mediator, I talk and teach quite a bit about Christian accountability. It may well be the most common subject I address. Scripture is replete with references to it. As Christians, we really are to be involved in one another’s lives. Think about Nathan/David, Paul/Peter, Paul/Timothy, Peter/Ananias/Saphira, and the list goes on and on. Think about Matthew 18, Galatians 6:1, Philippians 4, I Corinthians 5, James 5, and the list goes on and on and on.
But, interestingly, even though the Bible talks a great deal about the concept of accountability, I haven’t found an English translation yet that actually uses the word “accountability”. In that way, it is much like the word “evangelism”…lots of scriptural support for it, but the word isn’t actually used in scripture.
And so, this leads to my quagmire. Maybe you can help.
So, if “accountability” is a word with too much negative connotation, if it doesn’t communicate these ideas well enough, if we’re looking for a word or phrase that is more positive, perhaps more alluring, what might it be? Because when I suggest to church leaders that perhaps they would benefit from letting me come and teach about “accountability”, I get some pretty negative looks back in my direction.
Can you help me out? Got a better word?