Tuesday Re-mix –
Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.
Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus:
Who, being in very natureGod,
did not consider equality with God something to be grasped,
but made himself nothing,
taking the very natureof a servant,
being made in human likeness.
And being found in appearance as a man,
he humbled himself
and became obedient to death—
even death on a cross!
Arrogance is just ugly.
Whoever you are and whatever your message may be and however important that message is to me, if you deliver it with arrogance, I will not hear it. It really is that simple…that cut and dried. Maybe it is just me, I honestly do not know, but arrogance just so rubs me the wrong way that (despite my best efforts) I simply cannot get past it to hear the message behind it.
My bet with this blog post is that I am not alone in this perspective.
To me, there are just not very many character flaws uglier than arrogance. I say that with a touch of self-deprecation, because I know with certainty that I am capable of this particular flaw myself. I really, really hate it when it comes out in me, because I believe it is so very ugly when I see it in anyone else.
The more I read and listen to people outside the church about why they are not interested in being inside the church, when you start cutting through to the essence of their complaints, when you boil them all down, they mostly seem to come down to arrogance on the part of the church in one form or another. But the interesting thing is, I don’t think we (the church) are all that in touch with our own arrogance. So here are some areas of “latent arrogance” on our part…arrogance to which we may be blind but which is very real to the outside world:
1. Theologians, We: Do you believe it is possible to have a right theology and a wrong heart? Indeed, my theology can be perfect, i.e., my interpretation of scripture can be right on the money without my having even the slightest evidence of the Spirit of God living in me. I see it here in the blogosphere all the time…people chiming in to theological debates with such venom and vitrious, it makes me (the lawyer) blush! Part of the problem here is that we forget the Biblical truth that “for now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror”. We hold our theology as if we see everything perfectly clearly, thank you very much. How can we believe we see all Spiritual truth perfectly clearly when our best source of Spiritual truth tells us that, in fact, we see it all pretty dimly for now? For more on this issue, I love this post from Donald Miller.
2. Insiders, We: I recently posted here on the problem of having our own “denominational vocabulary” and how that tends to disconnect us from those outside our church. The first time I published that post, a particularly insightful comment (thank you, David!) reminded me that we are never in more danger of being arrogant than when we are feeling like an “insider” in any organization or institution, particularly including the church. Like Peter, who was in the exclusive “inner circle” of apostles who got to see the Transfiguration, we run the risk of thinking we are something when we are not, and a humiliating correction is probably in our near future!
3. Moralists, We: Granted, there are obviously plenty of social issues upon which even Christians do not agree, but we do agree on an awful lot, assuming a Biblical worldview. What baffles me is that we somehow expect the rest of the world to see these issues the same way we do, and when they do not, we (arrogantly) decide they are just ignorant heathens, devoid of any redemptive value. What’s more, we then rail against them and boycott them unless they relent and agree to act like Christians. Frankly, some of our camps spend more time and energy trying to get non-Christians to act like Christians than we spend trying to get our own brothers/sisters to act like Christians. Here are some important words from Paul to the Corinthian church who was dealing with moral issues of its own: “What business is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to judge those inside? God will judge those outside.” I Corinthians 5:12-13. Judging those outside the church is, well, arrogance.
I could go on and on, but we’re already way too long for this post. But seriously, friends, can we just get over ourselves in these regards and begin earnestly seeking the mind of Christ in our attitudes toward others? Oh, what a difference that might make in the world!
4 responses to “Let’s Get Over Ourselves”
Great post, Blake.
At the heart here is the ancient Christian virtue of humility, a constant struggle for me as well.
I’m fascinated by the question of whether we can have a right theology and a wrong heart. We both know folks of whom that seems to be the case. As the Psalmist reminds us: “The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise.” Some of us (like me) have to have our hearts and spirits broken before we can come to a “right theology.” We are a stiff-necked people.
Many thanks, BC.
Wow! Is there a tightrope to walk here! Could it be that a rudder would be useful? Many of the Who’s Who’s in the media and general culture are advocating just the thing we are cautioning against, namely, focus on Self. There is a rudder, a compass, a foundation. You have already given a glimpse of it (Phil. 2:3 ff). We Christians need it as much as anyone. Meanwhile, VERY influential people outside the church are quite vocally obscuring the Firm Foundation with their own personal and private musings, ponderings and introspections. I’ll not mention names, but they are not difficult to spot. Thus, in just this one topic you raise, we have two fronts to watch simultaneously and vigilantly. And what could be more true: seeking the mind of Christ, as you say, must come first, or all else will go astray.
Thanks, Monty, and I agree! Seems that the mind of Christ is so often so very counter-cultural. Or I should say, our culture is so often so very counter-Christian!
It would great if people could share how they get over themselves.